Feelings don't die easily because we keep feeding them with memories. That's exactly the reason why it's so hard to move on.
So does that mean that killing all those memories will help you move on?
Honestly, if you ask me. Yes. It does mean exactly just that.
However, before you do that, feel free to blog about it (private blog) or write it in your diary. Reason? So that some other nosey people won't come minding your business and ask you stuff that would just remind you more of the person.
Keep all the pictures in there. Every single one. And when you're done. Delete everything else that could remind you of that memory(ies). Seriously, it will help you.
And after you're pretty sure you're over your heartbreaker, then feel free to then browse your blog or diary back if you want to relive the memory(ies). But I doubt you'd do so because you've already successfully moved on. Maybe only after those agonizing painful years shall you stumble upon it again then be reminded of it, and smile and laugh it off.
Why? Because you can now be more appreciative or grateful of what you have now.
Hopefully you'll have a better happier life then.
Good luck all heartbreakees.
It's never easy, but know that you won't have to get over it alone. (:
Cheers!
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